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The Best Tips for the Best Phone Sex Experience

The Best Tips for the Best Phone Sex Experience

By Brandon R. | July 13, 2019

Most people who regularly have phone sex want to get the most out of each session. Unfortunately, most phone sex conversations have their fair share of flaws and problems. If you want to avoid such problems, or you just want to improve your phone sex conversation skills, then the following tips will show you what you need to do

Pick A Topic And Stick To It

One of the best ways to enjoy phone sex is to pick a topic that you can focus on. You can talk about the other partner's body, for example, or you can focus the conversation on your particular fetish. You can also talk about the types of sex that you enjoy.

The goal here is to prevent yourself and your partner from digressing into random subjects. Remember, phone sex is mainly about sex. So don't allow the conversation to turn to other topics. Stay focused on what you want to talk about, and treat the whole thing as though it’s actual sex. 

Don't Be Afraid To Role Play

Role-playing is another excellent way to enjoy phone sex. You can be the hot boss and she's the secretary, or you can be the hunky laborer and she's the lonely divorcee. Phone sex is mostly imaginary anyway, so you might as well take it one step further.

The best way to roleplay in a phone sex conversation is to really get into it. If you want to roleplay as a sexy Casanova, prepare your role ahead of time. Imagine yourself as an actual playboy or celebrity, act out your character in front of the mirror and imagine how women will react to it. Once you have perfected your style, start a phone sex conversation using your new persona.

If you're not used to role-playing, you can try writing your ideal sex conversation. You can use this written draft as a guideline during phone sex. For example, if you want to roleplay as a millionaire playboy, prepare an imaginary scenario where you are about to have sex with a woman.

This scenario should include a time and a location, as well as whatever items you want to use during the session. Once you have these issues figured out role-playing will be a lot easier.

Talk Dirty

Use as many dirty, nasty words as you want, and if your phone partner likes the idea, ask her if she's willing to trade fake insults. Talking dirty will allow you to experiment with all kinds of sexy role-play scenarios, and a dirty joke or two can be useful when deployed at the right moment.

The "F" word, for example, will allow you to steer the phone conversation towards raunchier topics. With your partner’s consents, you can even try re-enacting a porn scene or two.

So if you prefer rough phone sex conversations, don't be afraid to use a few dirty words. They can help you spice up your phone sex sessions, and that should count for a lot.

Prepare A Few Talking Points Ahead Of Time

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It's always better to be ready and get prepared for your çhat session

You should probably prepare a few talking points before you start any phone sex conversation.

For example, you can have a talking point about what turns you on and what turns you off. You should also have a line or two readies in the event that you end up with a phone partner who's a little shy.

For example, you can prepare a few questions or jokes to open up the conversation. Also, prepare a special greeting. Starting a phone sex conversation can be tricky at times, but if you have your talking points ready, you'll be able to start your conversations more easily because you don't have to think about what you have to say.

This isn't to say that you should plan everything ahead of time though. Spontaneity is one of the great things about phone sex, but there will always be situations where you're stuck or stammering and having a talking point or two ready can help you in such cases.

Listen To How Other People Have Phone Sex

Sometimes, the best way to enjoy phone sex is by studying other people's techniques. You can find all kinds of phone sex recording on the internet, so you shouldn’t have a hard time finding what you need. If you've never experienced phone sex before then these conversations will teach you what you need to know.

Phone sex recordings can teach you what works and what doesn't work. They can also show you how to avoid potentially embarrassing situations. There are even a few phone sex recordings of chat line experts who use the best lines and talking points to impress their clients.

You can find many such recordings on chat line websites, and there are also a few porn websites that feature a few phone sex recordings. Give them a try if you're interested. You may learn a thing or two on how to enjoy phone sex sessions. 

Avoid Uncomfortable Topics

So far, we've discussed things that you should do to get the most out of each phone sex conversation, but there are also a few things that you should avoid. Most people have comfort zones with regards to sex, and you should avoid crossing those comfort zones whenever you're in a phone sex conversation.

For example, if you have a particularly specific fetish, tell your phone sex partner about it before bringing it up in the conversation.

Likewise, there are some people who are tempted to add a racial or religious angle into their phone sex conversations. If your partner doesn't like such topics, don't force the issue or find someone who is comfortable with them.

Most phone sex users are open-minded, but they all have their limits and 'no-go zones.' So don't push your partner into topics that they don't want to discuss.

Prepare A Few Sexy Jokes

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Jokes are good to have a non-stressful phone sex experience.

Sexy jokes can make phone conversations better, and you're going to get more out of a phone sex session if you know how to make your partner chuckle. Humor can lighten the mood of a phone sex session, and if delivered correctly, they can liven up even the most boring sessions.

For example, you can bring up famous lines from movies or pop culture. Not only are these references funny, they can also be conducive for roleplaying.

You can also make fun of the idea of phone sex, or you can bring up a funny sex-related anecdote. Anything that can make your conversations more humorous should be considered

For example, you can bring up famous lines from movies or pop culture. Not only are these references funny, but they can also be conducive for roleplaying.

You can also make fun of the idea of phone sex, or you can bring up a funny sex-related anecdote. Anything that can make your conversations more humorous should be considered. 

Work On Your Voice

Your sex voice is the voice you use when you talk to women, and since phone sex involves a lot of talking, you should work on your voice before you start any phone sex conversations. To do this, record your voice using your phone and listen to it again and again. 

Does it sound sexy? Does it sound hot?

If the answer is no then you should probably work on your voice. Recall the voices of certain actors or celebrities, and try to imitate them as much as possible. 

You can also make your voice deeper or higher with a little practice. You can even modulate your voice to prove that you're a sexy kind of guy. At the very least, you should work on your voice so that you don't sound boring or average.

If all else fails, try adding a fake accent or a vocal quirk. It will make you seem more interesting, particularly if you like to role play during phone sex sessions. 

Be Sensitive To Your Partner

It may sound like a cliché, but you should also be sensitive to the needs of your partner. Phone sex is a give and take activity, and you should know what to give to the conversation if you want to get the best out of each session. 

If your phone partner is into a particular fetish, just roll with it and try to combine it with your own. The more you give to the woman on the other line, the more she is likely to play along with your own tastes and preferences. 

So pay attention to your partner’s tone of voice and don’t be afraid to ask her about her own kinks. You should also inquire about the topics that make them uncomfortable. Once you have taken care of these issues, you’ll be able to have better phone sex conversations. 

Practice

Finally, you should practice your ability to engage in phone sex. Practice makes perfect, and you will become a lot better at phone sex if you do it often enough.

Some chat lines offer free trials that you can use, and you can also try anonymous chat rooms on the internet to help you develop your phone sex skills. So if you want to get better at phone sex, don’t let a few embarrassing experiences deter you. Keep at it, and you’ll become an expert at this sort of thing in no time.